'Attitude' by Mannie

Why do some people have a bad attitude? This question i always ask myself. In the few years i have been on this earth i can say i have met a lot of people, some who put me off at first contact, and i am sorry to say, this is mostly common among girls, why exude such negative vibe, some say that's the way they are, but really, who was made that way, God himself doesn't make us and instill bad attitude inside of us.


Some people feel, being too plain and nice to people can make them take you for granted, well have you ever thought of how many people you must have thrown out of your life all because of that same bad attitude, when i say bad attitude, what do i mean?

Attitude is eager or quick to argue or fight; aggressively defiant, or truculent uncooperative behavior, believe me the topic above is one thing that infuriates me and it could push me 1000 meters away from a particular person, why have that attitude, you see in relationships where all things are going on well till when attitude beings to reveal itself on both side, do you know your attitude can mar you? well yes it can, in a very fast manner at that, i see some girls who are always quick to being saucy and quick to hiss at every little thing that annoys them, then those ones whom at every little thing they will insult you and your unborn generation, and those guys who feel the world revolves around them, you might just be shocked.

This things we do, gradually grow with us and they become an integral part of our life, then you see yourself displaying it at every little opportunity.

Then all you malice keepers all because someone offended you, you feel he/she doesn't even deserve a good morning from you, those are also some major put off attitudes, yeah you can get angry but why keep malice with someone for 2 years and counting haba!!, humility and good attitude have gotten people to places irrespective of their educational background.

The example i am about to give is one out of many experiences i had with a person with bad attitude, and i am sure we all have our personal experiences too, had a girl back in school, we were close but she had a glaring bad attitude, she was saucy, quick to hiss and arrogant, yeah we were friends, but i was tolerating her, and i could notice so many guys liked her because she was pretty, but they were always talking about her bad attitude, she did that to anybody, teachers down to students, it was a bad stain on her path, but she didn't know, i would be there when guys who try to get her attention, sit and analyse her, it was bad believe me, i don't know how things are for her now, but i did talk to her then to change because she noticed it was driving people away from her.

Are you reading this and you notice you have a lot of people running from you, compare your friends from last year to now, how many are left with you? those that left, did your character or attitude contribute in any way to why they left, consider changing before its too late because CHARACTER AND ATTITUDE CAN TAKE YOU PLACES, MONEY CAN ONLY GAIN YOU FACES!!

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